Husband has serious bedwetting problem... need advice!!! (serious answers please)? - bed wetting and std
my husband a year has developed this problem of bedwetting. Started back from Iraq (war) last year, when he had drunk alcohol only wet her bed, which was only once every two weeks. continued until only the bed, even without alcohol in his system was not so often, perhaps twice a week. Now almost a year after it was like every night. I blew against the principle and oh it's b / c he drinks, or it was an accident and it's boring. I tell him to get help. He did not say that his bed-wetting, but doc said he had had UTI and bladder problems, diabetes, as sexually transmitted diseases. She refuses to help as much as I told him, and he said he had never been a prior history of bedwetting, I think it might be PTSD, or many other causes of enuresis. How can I get them to make it seriously to take and not be embarrassed to talk to your doctor about it is I need advice please. not that my husband has served for this country ...
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Sorry to hear that your husband is there. Because he had no history of bedwetting before returning from the war, it was simply a form of post-traumatic stress disorder (possibly but not always) have bedwetting as a symptom. He is probably sleep too deep to feel your bladder is filled and wake time. While this is happening is more and more over time, the bladder can actually get used to decrease during sleep, so that only relax the muscles are filled in automatically when a certain level, instead of the "treatment" (sort of) to receive or awakening. This is (obviously) a very embarrassing for him, and he did the right thing to try to address a sensitive, non-confrontational manner.
Unfortunately, it seems, it has very receptive to his efforts in this regard. Please note that not only he can decide, you are ready to seek treatment for this problem. If it's not on board their efforts, then nothing (Wake, etc. will do),have no effect.
I offer the following advice as a fellow of the fight in adult males with a problem of bed-wetting occasionally. My problem is not the same as her husband (he was a Bedwetters in and out of my life because my bladder is not well developed for my age and I've never been to war), but I know something about how it's embarrassing, like He powerless, lost control of his bladder feels, and therefore would be open only reluctantly to a doctor.
First, I would say that you are sitting on a time and choose to speak with him when he was a captive audience (maybe you're in a car, or standing at the door of the room, he can not) and say that you want openly with him about his bedwetting problem. Without glossing over or work around the problem. Very clear that you love and accept him as he is and wants to help him see what happens. Emphasize that it is your decision and your decision alone, as he is being treated or what type of Tre isCOUP looking for, and that the treatment "of going to work if they are active - but who struggle to cope with the current situation, and you need to find a purchase (eg alternative that depends Wash them down, so that his own bedding or) sleeping in a separate bed when you are ready to tackle the problem. Ask him if he really wants to wake up in wet sheets in the morning, or if you think it might be interesting to see if he can help, because not doing it alone, obviously. now go to the doctor with him and with him some trouble, tell the doctor himself. ... After waiting to speak. You can choose to immediately open up, or could But finally, take some time. continue to show what you like and do not let him or reject him because of - but make sure you are aware of their needs and what steps they should take to achieve them (something) to when t cooperate.
I wish both the best and hope that we have to find a solution for both!
I agree, it would be embarrassing to him to see his doctor about it, but it should. I can imagine that many of them his time in Iraq has to do. But there is no cure for incontinence, and probably a "spirit" thing, not a physical problem. This is probably the dream, that being that is the case.
You really need to see the document and the help to accept it as it is. If he refuses to solve the problem, the risk of marital problems. I said. xx
Insist that sleep on the bed or sitting in another room. Do not be wrong with that - it's just really unfair that you sleep with the urine of someone else. You can also call your doctor to know what happened.
By the way - like so drunk, urinating in itself is very dangerous. Consumption of alcohol is a dangerous level. Please help for him.
I'm really sorry, but I can not help my self but laugh, but still recco u really go to the doctor he does not mean ... Ask the doctor and hell give pills and probably, if uu goto the bathroom before bedtime, to help a little
It really is a great woman problem.My woke up 3 times in the middle of the night to show me the way to the laundry. It took time, and I'm co.operated.Now well. Try this.
There is a syndrome that affects people returning from the war. Might still in Iraq) as Asleap (nightmares, the only way to get rid of this (to my knowledge) is the therapy. Either that, or went to the bathroom before bedtime.
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